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Be Your Own Valentine

Prioritizing Your Well-Being through Self-Love

‘Tine Zekis
5 min readFeb 13, 2024

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As Valentine’s Day draws near, let’s redirect our attention from external expressions of love to the most essential relationship we have — the one with ourselves. Instead of seeking validation or fulfillment from external sources, this year, I propose a radical shift: become your own valentine. Embrace the practice of self-care and self-love as a cornerstone of your daily routine.

Whether you’re a spouse, a parent, or a friend, you can’t pour from an empty cup. Taking care of yourself isn’t selfish; it’s necessary for your overall well-being and your ability to care for others effectively. So, let’s embrace the art of self-care and explore practical ways to integrate it into our everyday lives.

A Black woman with eyes closed and hands pressed together in a meditation pose.
Photo by madison lavern on Unsplash

The Importance of Self-Care

Self-care encompasses any activity that promotes our physical, mental, and emotional health. It’s about intentionally setting aside time to nurture ourselves, recharge our batteries, and replenish our reserves. Self-care offers a multitude of benefits:

  1. Stress Reduction: Engaging in self-care activities helps alleviate stress, promoting a sense of calm and relaxation.

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‘Tine Zekis
‘Tine Zekis

Written by ‘Tine Zekis

Christine (‘Tine) Zekis is an author, international speaker, software engineer, and the Founder & CEO of Getting Black Women Paid

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